Uh so I need a bit of advice
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How does one go about trying to not be hurt by your parents "Criticism?"
Basically it's my parents insulting me and calling me a slut and slacker
Because I refuse to work full time and I (legit) accidentally showed off a bit of cleavage today.
I just give up on explaining to my parents on what's going on because all they care about is if I'm their religion...

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Hey. I'll try to comment on this :) I don't know how much help I can be :(, but I can try ^^

I don't know what kind of religion your parents want you to be, but it's sad they reacted in a way that made you hurt :(. I don't think they meant to offend you directly. Criticism by parents is something that I can't really say much on because each parent is different. What I can say is when parents say something it's usually something they are trying to show. My parents are trying to help my little brother get an urge to drive, but their use of critisism on this topic is way different than this :(

My advice is to not think about the harsh words but rather what they mean. Eventually people need a job and need to think about it, but if full time doesn't work for you now don't stress too much :hug: Having an accident like that is an overreaction :(, but I think they were trying to point out that if that accident happened once it could happen again in a more public scene. Still, I don't like they called you that :(

:hug: Parents are parents. They love us but sometimes they don't think on what their words can do. I hope you feel better soon, and I hope this helped out a little.